Cultural Differences

I feel sure I have mentioned one of these before, but it continues to amaze and amuse me at the same time.

The Philippines is a hot, tropical country and not everybody has refrigeration (or air conditioners). Repeatedly when we have guests and serve things in bottles or cartons- cream for their coffee, soy sauce, the guests sniff it to make sure it hasn’t gone off before they use it.  Not blatantly, but not surreptitiously, either.  It’s more of a matter of fact, this is what we do here thing.  It makes perfect sense, it just takes me aback sometimes.


Everybody who comes inside feels quite comfortable picking up our utility bills and inspecting them and then discussing them with us, with commentary on whether we are paying too much, too little, more than they are, less than they are, and why that might be.   We have had these conversations with our helper (like a maid/cook/superwoman), with the lady who comes to give me a back massage, with a young preacher, with the neighbour’s Yaya (a nanny) who stopped for a few hours when she locked herself and the kids out of their house, with a carpenter, with a teacher friend- I can’t even list them all. Casual strangers, good friends, employees, co-workers- it doesn’t matter.    And this is the part that really makes me chuckle- that reaction so many of you, my fellow North Americans, slightly shocked, eyebrows raised, that ‘what in the what?’ face, the head scratching bewilderment over why on earth this is okay…., yeah, probably any Filipino and maybe other Asian friends are having that same reaction to this post, scratching their heads in bemused bafflement as they try to figure out what on earth this is even worth commenting on? What is the big deal?

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Charlotte Mason Education: Nature Study

Many people put off nature study and the nature journals that go along with a Charlotte Mason education.  They put it off until they know more, until they are more confident, until they have a schedule down, until they’ve learned more.  There’s nothing wrong with this- to a point. The problem is when a delay to catch your breath and get your ducks in a row becomes eternal procrastination and the delay itself has become a weight and discouragement holding you back.


Dive in.  You can do this, and it will bless you and your family. There are several things you can do right now to begin nature study with your children even if you are beginning from abject ignorance.

1. Convince yourself that this is interesting and something you want to know more about.
2. Get a notebook or journal of any kind and a pencil or two- don’t waste your time trying to find the absolutely perfect materials- you can take the time to search for those, but start with what you have readily available.
3. Go draw something. It can be a weed in your backyard, at the local park, at the edge of the parking lot of the grocery store. It can be a potato or an onion that sprouted in your kitchen. It can be flowers you buy for the dinner table. Do this regularly- at least weekly.
4. Mind your attitude: It does not matter if you draw well. It doesn’t matter if nobody could distinguish a buttercup from a rose in your sketches. This is where you start. This is probably the most important step in helping your children learn to keep nature journals- you need to model this yourself, and you need to model a good attitude about it. Don’t whine, cry, berate yourself under your breath or out loud, don’t tear up your paper or your hair, don’t scribble out your drawing in despair or rage, don’t stomp off in frustration or pound your own head with your fists (if you think I’m describing you, why, hello, my soul-sister!)

If it’s awful, laugh at it yourself, and say something like, “Well, nobody else could tell this is a plant and not a splotch made by the dog tracking in mud, but I’m glad I tried, anyway. If I hadn’t, I never would have noticed that deep inside this flower there is yellow spot shaped just like a star…” Insert your own thing that you noticed because you were legitimately attempting to see the plant as it is and then draw something about it on the paper. Repeat this regularly- the drawing and the good attitude.

Do not get preachy about it. Once positive comment and a shrug of your shoulders over the frustrating results is plenty. If you overdo this, the children sniff out a Morality Lesson and spontaneously erect a sound and Moral Lesson proof barrier between themselves and you.

When you have time, peruse the Comstock Handbook of Nature study for yourself.  You can read it online here- I don’t recommend this for the whole book, but for the beginning of nature study direction for yourself, I do recommend reading the first 27 pages.

“The scientific names given to the parts of plants have been the stumbling block to many teachers, and yet this part of plant study should be easily accomplished. First of all, the teacher should have in mind clearly the names of the parts which she wishes to teach; the illustrations here given are for her convenience. When talking with the pupils about flowers let her use these names naturally:
“ See how many geraniums we have; the corolla of this one is red and of that one is pink. The red corolla has fourteen petals and the pink one only five’ etc. ” This arbutus which James brought has a pretty little pink bell for a corolla.”
” The purple trillium has a purple corolla, the white trillium a white corolla; and both have green sepals”
The points to be borne in mind are that children like to call things by their names because they are real names, and they also like to use ” grownup ” names for things; but they do not like to commit to memory names which to them are meaningless. Circumlocution is a waste of breath; calling a petal a ” leaf of a flower ” or the petiole ” the stem of a leaf” is like calling a boy’s arm ” the projecting part of James’s body ” or Molly’s golden hair ” the yellow top ” to her head. All the names should be taught gradually by constant unemphasized use on the part of the teacher; and if the child does not learn the names naturally then do not make him do it unnaturally.
The lesson on the garden or horseshoe geranium with single flowers may be given first in teaching the structure of a flower, since the geranium blossom is simple and easily understood.

From first to last the children should be taught that the object of the flower is to develop seed. They should look eagerly into the maturing flower for the growing fruit. Poetry is full of the sadness of the fading flower, whereas rightly it should be the gladness of the flower that fades, because its work is done for the precious seed at its heart. The whole attention of the child should be fixed upon the developing fruit instead of the fading and falling petals.”
From Handbook of Nature Study, By Comstock

Do not read the above and despair- learning these things is a process. You do not have to know everything all by yourself by Tuesday.  In addition to the four items at the start of this post:

5. Slowly begin learning to identify plants and their parts. You can do this with your kids. There are various ways. Ask around locally, maybe you have an expert in your family or neighbourhood. Look for books at your library, at the bookstore, at a local nature center if you have such a place. Use the internet- there is an excellent FB group for plant identification. Take a picture, post the picture and the location your found it, and somebody will tell you the scientific name. You can look it up to find out more.

As you learn, use the information you gain naturally, in your day to day conversations with your family.  Do not turn this into a quiz, worksheet, or tiresome memory game.

"If the teacher says, " I have a pink hepatica. Can anyone find me a blue one? " 
the children, who naturally like grownup words, will soon be calling these flowers 
hepaticas. But if the teacher says, " These flowers are called hepaticas. Now please 
everyone remember the name. Write it in your books as I write it on the black- 
board, and in half an hour I shall ask you again what it is," the pupils naturally look 
upon the exercise as a word lesson and its real significance is Ipst. This sort of nature- 
study is dust and ashes and there has been too much of it. The child should never 
be required to learn the name of anything in the nature-study work; but the 
name should be used so often and so naturally in his presence that he will 
learn it without being conscious of the process." (Comstock)

Learn the details to look for- the colour of the blossom is always what we notice first, but this is not nearly as useful as details like:
The number and shape of the petals
The shape of the leaves and how they are placed on the stem
The size and location of the plant- not just ‘Philippines,’ but information like- at the edge of a pond, in the shade beneath a tree, in a cultivated garden, sprouting up in a trash pile, by the beach, on the side of a rocky road, in a cow-field…
The shape of the stem- plants in the mint family all have a square stem, for example.

Again- you can take this slowly. It’s not a race. Notice and learn one or two things now, and the knowledge gradually builds, one piece of information on to the other.

Find a reference you can take with you outside to the plants, or print the picture below and take it with you and hold it right next to an actual flower, looking to see if you can identify the parts of the real flower by referring to the printed picture.  You won’t necessarily be able to see and identify every single part on every flower every time.  Just do what you can.


A suggestion about the nature notebooks and journals- It’s fine to use products that give you help with jumpstarting the process, suggest seasonal things to notice and draw. But if these programmed projects assign copywork, poems for the children to add, craft projects for them to do, and so on- that’s really not necessary. Skip those things. The craft projects seldom are beautiful or useful nor do they contribute to understanding of nature and science. The best practice for copywork is for the children to choose their own from their reading, or, if the can’t or won’t, for the teacher/parent to choose *from their reading.* Don’t bring in outside quotes, snatches and excerpts from things they have not read. Don’t make the connections for the children, and don’t let somebody else who is selling you something be the one to make the connections, either.

Nature study is part of a growing process. You are not looking for a scope and sequence to complete, boxes to check off, and perfectly executed works of art at the end of the study. For one thing, there should be no end of the study. Nature study is for life. We are always learning in a Charlotte Mason education. The most important work is the invisible workings that happen in the hearts and minds of the children.

Here’s another excerpt from Comstock illustrating the sort of thing we hope to see with nature study:

“Many of the subjects for nature lessons can be studied only in part, since but one phase may be available at the time. Often, especially if there is little probability that the pupils will find opportunity to complete the study, it is best to round out their knowledge by reading or telling the story to supplement the facts which they have discovered for themselves. This story should not be told as a finality or as a complete picture but as a guide and inspiration for further study. Always leave at the end of the story an interrogation mark that will remain aggressive and insistent in the child’s mind.

To illustrate: Once a club of junior naturalists brought me rose leaves injured by the leafcutter bee and asked me why the leaves were cut out so regularly. I told them the story of the use made by the mother bee of these oval and circular bits of leaves and made the account as vital as I was able; but at the end I said, ” I do not know which species of bee cut these leaves. She is living here among us and building her nest with your rose leaves, which she is cutting every day almost under your very eyes. Is she then so much more clever than you that you can- not see her or find her nest?

For two years following this lesson I received letters from members of this club. Two carpenter bees and their nests were discovered by them and studied before the mysterious leaf-cutter was finally ferreted The leaf-cutter bee out. My story had left something interesting for the young naturalists to discover.
The children should be impressed with the fact that the nature story is never finished. There is not a weed or an insect or a tree so common that the child, by observing carefully, may not see things never yet recorded in scientific books; therefore the supplementary story should be made an inspiration for keener interest and further investigation on the part of the pupil. The supplementary story simply thrusts aside some of the obscuring underbrush, thus revealing more plainly the path to further knowledge.”

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Children are worthy of the best- that’s not elitism

“I believe the unique difference in this method of learning over all others is that Literature weaves a Golden Thread through all the subjects taught. Enthusiasm for Good Books is the Main Theme.
Whatever fault there may be in the Parents’ Union it is certainly not lack of enthusiasm. This enthusiasm springs from contact with the great mind of our founder Miss Mason, who has discovered again for us the great truth which Christ taught in his Gospel, that we must not offend, despise or hinder little children. Parents and teachers are constantly doing this when they give children the wrong mental food.
We show our respect for the child’s mind when we give him the best in Literature and Art and assist his mental growth by putting him into communication with the Great Masters. We have only to read the lives of great men to learn that their knowledge and insight was derived by coming into contact, while young, with living and dead masters through their books and works.
Bunyan chiefly learnt his style and insight into character from studying the Bible. Michael Angelo spent his most impressionable years in the Medici household, meeting the great scholars and painters of his day and studying the antique marbles in the Medici Gardens.”
Also, loved this sentence: what we ponder over, we remember.
Charlotte Mason said she was ‘jealous for the children’ because every new educational method belittled them intelectually. She wanted more for them, the best the human race had to offer, and she wanted this for *all* the children. It is the very opposite of an ‘elite,’ snobbish education- elitism denies the best to others. CM’s liberal education for all was meant to be shared with the masses, not hoarded and kept to an elite few.
It is a wide and generous education. It is part of our national disgrace that today believing that all children should have the best there there is when it comes to at and literature is somehow seen as ‘snobbish,’ while sneering at it is somehow more admirable and loving.
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Vintage Apple Dumpling Receipts and Tales

(Transactions of the Indiana Horticultural Society – 1879)

Recipes come from various vintage sources, all published before 1900, so use them at your own risk.

BAKED APPLE DUMPLINGS: R0ll thin any nice puff paste and cut into square pieces.
Pare and remove the cores from nice stewing apples and roll an apple in each piece of paste, put them into baking dish and brush them with the white of an egg beaten stiff, and sugar over them. bake about three quarters of an hour.

APPLE JELLY.—Thirteen good-sized apples, one quart of water and one lemon. Boil till soft and strain. To one pint of juice add one pound of sugar, and boil twenty minutes. (I would store this in the fridge and use to spread on biscuits, pancakes, or between cake layers)

Castles in the Air: And Other Phantasies
By Barry Gray, 1871

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My new fandom club

these look so fun

Hippy happy shoes

I love these shoes. I found a company in Hong Kong that ships to the Philippines for a dollar and the clogs pictured in the second set were about 20 dollars.

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