The Messies manual advice that you start in one corner and work your way around the room, don’t run off to do ten other things. Quit when you need to quit, and when you come back to that room, pick up where you left off. Some advise instead that you begin with the biggest thing/mess in the room, but this would be so counterproductive for me. I would totally fail at this method. In fact, I know this because I have tried it. It feeds my hither, thither, and yon, caffeinated squirrel with the attention span of a lobotomized butterfly attention span and I never get any forrader. In fact, I make the room ten times messier if I try any other logistical attack than the start in one corner and work around the room method.
Don’t put it down, put it away.
No flat surfaces near the entry points of rooms. For once, I am not the worst offender here, and I won’t say who is, but since it isn’t a child, I find my house easier to keep tidy if there are no flat surfaces to put things on near any room entrances. I can’t do away with all of them in my house, because we have a few that are built in, but I have found that I have less cleaning to do if the flat surfaces near entry points are covered in annoying knick knacks.
Proximity– Splurge and get a toilet brush and separate cleaners for each bathroom and the kitchen. If you have to hunt down the cleaning supplies, you’re less like to use them regularly. Put a broom and dust-pan on each floor. Put the iron and ironing board where you are most likely to use them (in my case, this is in my bathroom, NOT my laundry room).
Prevention– put contact paper on the wall behind the trash-can. Choose a smaller laundry basket so you cannot let laundry build up to much. Put the oil bottles in your kitchen cabinets on plastic lids. Don’t own things that have to be dusted with q-tips.
The one piece of advice the Fly Lady has that did work for me is the reminder that housework done imperfectly still blesses your family. Messies tend to be perfectionists and find it paralyzing to clean imperfectly. ( I have also been known to have my kids pin a sheet up in the laundry room to hide the clean washer, dryer, and shelf of tidy cleaning supplies from guests who were filing in a line that went through the laundry room and into the kitchen. My husband told me I was nuts- did I want them to think we don’t do laundry here? No. I didn’t want them to think about laundry _at all_. )
Set the timer and work for fifteen minutes. You can do anything for 15 minutes.
It’s okay to watch a movie while folding laundry.
Learn what works for you and don’t let others tell you this is wrong, and don’t let others- no matter how clean they are- bully you into doing things their way if their way doesn’t work for you (the Fly lady and shoes, for instance, is a huge fail for me as I would rather that NOBODY wore shoes in our house)-
For me- when the stuff gets overwhelming- I find it a huge help to clear everything off my desk and stuff it in a box and then look at and put away one thing at a time. However, my oldest cannot function that way, it drives her nuts. I don’t understand that at all. But she should not try to clean my way, and I shouldn’t try hers.
It’s okay to throw out unmatched socks– it’s not only okay, it’s imperative. Do this at least once a year, probably more is better.
The crockpot is your friend, ally, and faithful servant.
Don’t let the perfect become the enemy of the good enough.
What has worked for you?